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Top 5 plus 1 things you should ask yourself if you really think you like or love someone

I would never label myself as a love expert or ever intend to be, but I am interested in the subject and the topic of what makes relationships really last. I've been in several relationships, on numerous dates, read many articles, and have talked to many people about the facets of their relationships and how they really make it work. One rule of thumb is that although opposites usually attract, both  partners need to have the same values. This could mean perspectives on kids, family, friends, other relationships, work, money, and ultimately how each partner sees their life playing out over time. If both partners are set on walking different paths, I think it becomes ever more difficult for each to see eye-to-eye when problems arise; and it's the part where both of you can fight to stick together when the proverbial sh*t hits the fan that will really keep you together. So with that said, below are 5+1 questions that I think you should ask yourself to hypothetically stress-tes